"This is how he can spend time with the other woman without having to rush home.It's his way of making sure he doesn't have to worry about looking over his shoulder constantly and answering to you." 8."Likewise, if he holds back the warm and fuzzies (i.e.he stops saying 'I love you,' no longer holds your hand in public or barely hugs you anymore), he could be cutting off his feelings of affection for you, so he can focus on his new partner without feeling as guilty," says Dr. Guilty Behavior Guilt-ridden behavior is a dead giveaway that your partner is hiding something.Anything that can be characterized as secretive, unusual or unexplained—or any behavior that has suddenly and inexplicably changed—could signify that he's hiding something, warns Manette."If your partner becomes elusive about his whereabouts, something's probably going on," says Tony De Lorenzo, owner of All State Investigations and coauthor of . "The computer screen changing when you walk into the room, hushed telephone conversations or calls taken outside, strange body language when in the company of the new gal at work, reluctance to take you places with him and his friends, and general unexplained behavior that feels suspicious, are all clues that your partner is straying," says Manette. You Never See Him Anymore If he's suddenly never around, he may really be busy at work or he may be busy with someone else.If the other woman demands more of his time, he may start arguments with you so he can storm out and rendezvous with her," says Manette.If he's not only picking fights, but also criticizing you for things that hadn't bothered him before, like your appearance, eating habits or intelligence, it's probably not about the way you chew your food or the 5 pounds you've gained, but really about another woman.
Plus, in order to cheat on someone, you have to be focused on what you don't like about her.He may shower you with affection and attention (giving you gifts for no reason, complimenting you frequently or helping around the house more), but diamonds and doing the dishes aren't necessarily the signs of an uncharacteristically sweet husband—they could indicate a guilty one."When a man feels guilty, he may become unusually affectionate or attentive as a way to mask his affair or relieve some of his guilt," explains Manette.His Attitude Towards You Dramatically Changes Changes in his mood can point to more than just stressful times at work."Men often get fidgety or irritable when they're supposed to be in two places at once.